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Hi Wonderful Peeps,
I thought I'd give you a quick up-date on where I'm at now.
It appears my disease has spread to my scar, which is rather painful to say the least!! I've been referred back to the hospital and have no idea what lies in store??? [:(]
I am, as you will know, petitioning for BR as my IVA is not sustainable and the stress is re-emerging - I have eczema in my ears, which is driving me mad!! Ahhhhh.....
My hormones are all over the place and my poor OH is probably walking on egg shells most of the time, unsure how I will react!! [:0] My Doc thinks I may need some hormone replacement drugs (if you remember I had to go through an inforced memopause proir to my operation).
We do have some good times to look forward to - we're going to Cardiff tomorrow for a stag do - that may seem strange for a female, but it's a civil partnersip we'll be attending in June. We've found a really cheap hotel, so it's a real treat, a night away!! [:)]
I hope you are all well and happy,
Wish me luck for 1st May - that I get the BR, and the OH gets to buy the beneficial interest in the house (Goodness I pray for that as loosing the house would be dreadful, especially as the OH (After paying his wife, who left with another man £42,000 - he agreed to not do the adultery thing and took most of the blame, which is admirable and stupid!!??) has meant his mortgage has doubled - hence our struggle.
Love you all,
Chardonnay xx [:I]

Hi Chardonnay,

I am so sorry to hear that you're not out of the woods yet, and I hope the hospital manages to get you sorted out soon. Lets hope that as from May 1st your year takes a turn for the better.

My hubby knows what it's like to have a partner who one minute is sweetness and light, and the next could rip someones head off!

I think you will be ok with BI.

Have a fantastic time tomorrow as well.

Wow, you really are going through it at the moment.
I hope things settle very soon and you can start feeling better.

hugs xxxxx

Hi Chardonnay - sorry to hear you're not 100%, I'm sure when the BR is approved the stress will ease and that should help the eczema.

I'm sure your OH will be able to buy the BI - although don't expect it to happen overnight, my hubby went BR, Feb 9th and me buying the BI hasn't been formalised yet. They're probably snowed under at the moment.

Hope you enjoy the stag do [:D]

Hi Chardonnay,..I'm sorry to hear you're still not very well, that sounds really painful[:(] ... I hope things settle for you and you start feeling much better very soon...Enjoy the stag do[8D] and good luck with the BI as well, hun...take care..xx[:)]

I'm sorry to hear you're still poorly Chardonnay. I hope you're feeling better soon, and I'll be thinking about you on May 1st. Try not to worry too much about the BI as I'm sure it won't be a problem xxxxx

Hi Chardonnay, sorry to hear your not too well! Hope it gets sorted! Just wanted to add don't stress about the Bankruptcy, as I said before it's not that bad! I don't know about BI though as we rent, but I'm sure it will be fine! You will feel relieved after! Good luck for 1st May and have fun this weekend!
Jo x