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and I know I'm amongst friends here, people who know more about me than anyone else. My son grew up with his best mate from the age of 11 until yesterday they were inseparable but yesterday his friend took his own life. I cannot get this out of my head, my family is in pieces as he was often here, they played in a local footie team together. They've been through the normal lad things of naughtiness together and so much and my son the bodybuilder is in pieces crying like a baby and I can do nothing apart from cry too. Certainly makes me think just what is important and it's not all about money as for the last year I've lived and breathed IVA. I cannot imagine what his parents are going through and know I need to see them at some point but not right now. At peace D x

That's awful Lesley, my heart goes out to his family. What a tragedy. I do hope you're son is ok. X

Oh Lesley that is so sad. I feel so sorry for his parents, how can you get over losing a child. Your poor son must be in pieces, as must your family, all you can do is be there for him and each other.

It does put everything into perspective and I'm glad you have turned to us in this terrible time. Thats what friends are for.It does help to get your emotions out.

Thinking of you all during this very sad time xx

Lesley
How awful. My thoughts too go to the family too and everyone affected by such a sad thing.

Sorry honey big hug for your son.


Ang xx

oh lesley..i am sooo sorry to hear this...it is so tragic that young people are making this decision for whatever reason....
it is so hard for family and friends to get their head round why this happens and in some cases they never get closure....
i hope you and your son and others close to this young lad draw comfort from each other at this time
take care....

Lesley that is such sad and tragic news. I really do feel for his family and for you and your son trying to come to terms with this.

Thinking of you.

I am so sorry how awful for a young life to end in this way. So much sadness for his family and friends like your son and you. There are no straight forward feelings when something like this happens are there? Please try not to avoid the family though Lesley, as hard as it is, just say whats in your heart or just give them a hug and say nothing, they will need all their friends with them at this time of great sadness.

Best wishes to you and yours.

Love

I am so very sorry Lesley.what an absolute tragedy.His poor parents must be in bits.My thoughts are too with you all.Take care.xx

I'm so sorry Lesley for your family and his. Thinking of you at such an awful time xxx

Thank you all your words of kindness are very comforting to me, I am feeling much calmer now, we are visiting the parents on Sunday as we do know them well, the funeral is planned for next Friday and we're all going to pay our last respects. It's a tragic end to a short life of a handsome funny and charming young man who must have found himself in a very dark place. He had recently found God, but I fear maybe a little too late. RIP Dom x

lesley, our thoughts and prayers are with you, this is awful for all that were his friends and his family. take care.xx

If he found God honey, he will be in a lovely place now.

My heart goes out to everyone concerned. I just can't imagine how hard this must be.

Hi Lesley,

What a Tragedy!!!

So sorry to hear your News,my thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.

Take Care
xx