Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 5:17 pm
Hi,
I have been 'hiding' from my bills for about 2 yrs now. Ive lost my home, my son and basically my life through worring and avoiding my situation. But not anymore! Reading some of the stories on this forum has motivated me to put my head above the parapit and sort this mess out. So I've done it. Im out of my closet and back in the real world(erm!). Thank you to all you motivating posters - well done!!!
I owe approx 35k on CC/loan/catalogue/SC (not sure what interest has been added) & I was looking at BR or suicide until yesterday (No suicide due to my head being firmly stuck in a very large bag of sand!!!). The little I do earn from my temping job barely covers my day to day needs let alone paying off my debt - Ive finally opened up at home and explained my situation to my dad who is amazingly gonna lend me 20k toward my debts...I totally apprieciate that not everyone has this miracle waiting for them!!
So with this in mind and armed with information from this site, Ive reconsidered that I might be able to go into a F & F IVA.
So questions are....What d'ya think??? Im worried that because I've 'run' from it all that I really am in trouble? And if I am - How much ??
Im also worried that if my offer was refused that Id be instantly inline for BR and they would still expect my dads money??? But then again I cant be shot can I???
.....Can I???? lol
Hope u can Help!
Ju
I have been 'hiding' from my bills for about 2 yrs now. Ive lost my home, my son and basically my life through worring and avoiding my situation. But not anymore! Reading some of the stories on this forum has motivated me to put my head above the parapit and sort this mess out. So I've done it. Im out of my closet and back in the real world(erm!). Thank you to all you motivating posters - well done!!!
I owe approx 35k on CC/loan/catalogue/SC (not sure what interest has been added) & I was looking at BR or suicide until yesterday (No suicide due to my head being firmly stuck in a very large bag of sand!!!). The little I do earn from my temping job barely covers my day to day needs let alone paying off my debt - Ive finally opened up at home and explained my situation to my dad who is amazingly gonna lend me 20k toward my debts...I totally apprieciate that not everyone has this miracle waiting for them!!
So with this in mind and armed with information from this site, Ive reconsidered that I might be able to go into a F & F IVA.
So questions are....What d'ya think??? Im worried that because I've 'run' from it all that I really am in trouble? And if I am - How much ??
Im also worried that if my offer was refused that Id be instantly inline for BR and they would still expect my dads money??? But then again I cant be shot can I???
.....Can I???? lol
Hope u can Help!
Ju