Posted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 3:12 pm
I have posted on here recently and have been helped greatly by the assistance given. I have mentioned before I have debts of approxiamately £90k due to debts arising from gambling which resulted in loans and credit cards, being paid with loans and credit cards and so on and so on. I am having medical and other help to overcome the gambling.
I have told my wife, my parents and in-laws and am overwhelmed with their love and the fact they will support us.
My in-laws have even said they would give me money to help pay towards the debts(just under half the amount).
My concern is this. If I take the IVA route and use the money from them would it make any difference to the creditors(about 8?). So if for example I was deemed to pay £500 per month would that be the same if I owed £50k or £90k. Why should I waste their money on me.
Subsequently if they gave us money as they saw fit when an IVA was in place how would that be viewed?
Alternatively is there anything else I could do in this situation bearing in mind their ptential generosity?
I have told my wife, my parents and in-laws and am overwhelmed with their love and the fact they will support us.
My in-laws have even said they would give me money to help pay towards the debts(just under half the amount).
My concern is this. If I take the IVA route and use the money from them would it make any difference to the creditors(about 8?). So if for example I was deemed to pay £500 per month would that be the same if I owed £50k or £90k. Why should I waste their money on me.
Subsequently if they gave us money as they saw fit when an IVA was in place how would that be viewed?
Alternatively is there anything else I could do in this situation bearing in mind their ptential generosity?