Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 4:43 pm
Hi all,
I've found out today I'm pregnant! It wasn't exactly planned we started trying in Jan 2011 went on to loose 3 babies in a row, the last being in Feb 2012 and sort of never thought about contraception or trying after, we always said we'd leave it to fate....
Now it's happened I'm scared, although I am self employed and intent to stay self employed throught I'll be able to work until I'm due the nature of my work and can work after I've had the baby or take maternity allowance which is no less than I earn now ironically!
I know we will get more tax credits and child benefit, we have a daughter 3 1/2 already but I am worried how much of these payments the IVA will consume? how is a new baby calculated? I'll be due in August between our reviews, our 1st is happening now and our 2nd review will be december 2013 but obviously our expenses will go up before then [:(] what happens with getting a bit more when we need it?
Luckily we've kept most things from our daughter but we need some items and then if it's not a girl we'll certainly need clothes and formula and nappies etc eekk makes me panic what we've done?!
We've been through so much we didn't want to leave it until we were out the iva in 4 more years as we'll be 34 then and our daughter will be 7/12 :/
I've found out today I'm pregnant! It wasn't exactly planned we started trying in Jan 2011 went on to loose 3 babies in a row, the last being in Feb 2012 and sort of never thought about contraception or trying after, we always said we'd leave it to fate....
Now it's happened I'm scared, although I am self employed and intent to stay self employed throught I'll be able to work until I'm due the nature of my work and can work after I've had the baby or take maternity allowance which is no less than I earn now ironically!
I know we will get more tax credits and child benefit, we have a daughter 3 1/2 already but I am worried how much of these payments the IVA will consume? how is a new baby calculated? I'll be due in August between our reviews, our 1st is happening now and our 2nd review will be december 2013 but obviously our expenses will go up before then [:(] what happens with getting a bit more when we need it?
Luckily we've kept most things from our daughter but we need some items and then if it's not a girl we'll certainly need clothes and formula and nappies etc eekk makes me panic what we've done?!
We've been through so much we didn't want to leave it until we were out the iva in 4 more years as we'll be 34 then and our daughter will be 7/12 :/