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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:10 pm
by angela18
Just wondering how other people felt when waiting for proposal from IP!
I have mixed emotions, sometimes look forward to things moving forward, but other times, think with fear and dread of the unknown... is that normal?[B)]
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:17 pm
by aguise
Totally like thast angela. was it the right thing was there something I hadnt thought about. The one consolingf thought thought was that it couldnt have been any worse. Yes I just wanted things to move and settle having to face all the debt and realisation is so stressing. It will end angela , chin up deep breath and plod on, you wll be fine.
Ang x
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:21 pm
by angela18
oh I am!! its just such a range of different emotions that go through your mind. Fear, Anger, Hope, Relief. the human mind works in weird ways!!!
Think the fear bit is just what if it all goes belly up!!!
Don't think would be human if didn't react at all..
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:25 pm
by aguise
Definately all of those feelings and a few more. I was happy one minute and down in the dumps the next. Hubby was always so confident that it was the right thing and that it would be accepted. Mind he works so hard he was always at work and I tended to get all the creditor calls, which as I had just had surgery wore me down quite quickly.
Ang
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:28 pm
by angela18
hopefully all will turn out good in the end.. I have complete faith in Melanie and her team. Who I know will try there very best and more
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:31 pm
by aguise
I would have been more confident too if I had Melanie for an IP, though not to take it away from my company they have been fantstic.
Ang
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 10:22 pm
by emma_t
Hi angela
I had the whole range of emotions and feelings at the stage you are and kept wondering if I was doing the right thing all the time. I kept thinking if I could just struggle on a bit longer on m own something may come up and rescue me..
My iva was approved in November and I am nearly 6 payments in and have never felt better about my situation - I can finally see an end to my problems.
I know how hard it is but stay positive and have faith in Melanie as, in my opinion, you could not be in better hands right now.
The forum also seems to be helping you a lot as you are sounding positive!![:)]