Posted: Tue May 06, 2014 10:50 am
Hi everyone, not been here for a while but I hope everyone is getting on ok, I think for the last few months I've wanted to put the iva to the back of my mind really but being over half way now and on the downward slope I am amazed at how the time seems to be flying by.
Anyway, the last year has been a bit tough, I have been having massive problems with my back, endured through years of being a nurse but the long and short of it is, my back is wrecked, there is no surgical solution and I just have to cope with it as best I can, I have good days and bad days and pain relief and regular exercise helps to a certain extent. My job doesn't help but because of the iva, we're a bit stuck really.
My ip and team have been fantastic and since I saw the consultant last October are now looking to a variation to see if our creditors will accept funds paid to date which will then allow me to either reduce my hours significantly or leave my job and find an easier alternative.
We have a date for the variation, the 28th of this month so although it's been a few months coming, having that date to work towards is now bringing back all those nervousness sickly feelings I had the first time around 3 years ago. I'm trying not to get my hopes up and in the back of my mind can't believe for a minute that our creditors will accept what we've paid in so far £11k against an estimated £16k expected over the original 5 years on a debt of £55k so I'm still thinking we have another 2 years at least before I can find another job.
I'm trying to tell myself that Mel wouldn't put this forward if she didn't think it would be accepted but all the same, I'm very pessimistic, but that's just me, I'm always a bit of a glass half empty person.
So please send me positive vibes!
Anyway, the last year has been a bit tough, I have been having massive problems with my back, endured through years of being a nurse but the long and short of it is, my back is wrecked, there is no surgical solution and I just have to cope with it as best I can, I have good days and bad days and pain relief and regular exercise helps to a certain extent. My job doesn't help but because of the iva, we're a bit stuck really.
My ip and team have been fantastic and since I saw the consultant last October are now looking to a variation to see if our creditors will accept funds paid to date which will then allow me to either reduce my hours significantly or leave my job and find an easier alternative.
We have a date for the variation, the 28th of this month so although it's been a few months coming, having that date to work towards is now bringing back all those nervousness sickly feelings I had the first time around 3 years ago. I'm trying not to get my hopes up and in the back of my mind can't believe for a minute that our creditors will accept what we've paid in so far £11k against an estimated £16k expected over the original 5 years on a debt of £55k so I'm still thinking we have another 2 years at least before I can find another job.
I'm trying to tell myself that Mel wouldn't put this forward if she didn't think it would be accepted but all the same, I'm very pessimistic, but that's just me, I'm always a bit of a glass half empty person.
So please send me positive vibes!