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Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2011 11:22 pm
by howard07
Its been a month now since it all ended. I still haven't got used to being able to go and buy something without wondering, should I, or shouldn't I, what will the IP say etc etc. It feels like i have been given freedom.

Those of you still going down the road, stick at it, I know it is not easy, but the end is worth the effort.

Regards........Howard

Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 12:11 am
by plasticdaft
Posts like yours used to annoy me at the start of my insolvency,but I soon realised I was just jealous! Everyones iva or br journey is a personal one and we will all get there in the end.

I do hope you have started saving!

Well done on completing.

Paul

Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 7:43 am
by lukeofyorkshire
Ah the green eyed monster! Must admit you feel envious of those who have completed lol. Gives me the strength to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Well done Howard and I hope you have treated yourself to something nice!

Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 6:06 pm
by Foggy
They don't annoy me -- they remind me that there is an end -- and a better life after IVA.

Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 6:25 pm
by luluj
howard07 - it is now 5 months since mine finished. I have inherited since then as well - but still I pick something up and put it down and say NO ! The IVA certainly helps you to re-focus ! The only extravagence I have had with my inheritance is a new mattress ! Went food shopping today armed with my list and didn't deviate once ! £58 for two of us including 4 bottles of cider and a few guiness ! Meat, salad, veg included - you can do it if you stick to the list and watch the portion sizes that you buy - I have started really thinking about volumes - don't buy the BOGOF anymore as always landed up thinking that will be ok for ...but never used it !

Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2011 8:07 pm
by howard07
luluj wrote:

howard07 - it is now 5 months since mine finished. I have inherited since then as well - but still I pick something up and put it down and say NO ! The IVA certainly helps you to re-focus ! The only extravagence I have had with my inheritance is a new mattress ! Went food shopping today armed with my list and didn't deviate once ! £58 for two of us including 4 bottles of cider and a few guiness ! Meat, salad, veg included - you can do it if you stick to the list and watch the portion sizes that you buy - I have started really thinking about volumes - don't buy the BOGOF anymore as always landed up thinking that will be ok for ...but never used it !
Couldn't agree with you more. Some very good lessons learned. An IVA does have a lot of positives.

Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2011 8:17 pm
by kallis3
We buy BOGOF's for the stuff we normally use and can always put them away until the next time we need it.

I do still buy stuff I don't need, but make sure it doesn't take me past my budget for the week.

Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2011 8:34 pm
by Skippy
I'm the same Jan. I try and buy the stuff we use a lot when it's on special offer but I do still buy things I don't need - I don't think I'll ever be cured of that!

Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2011 8:46 pm
by TheMatrix
I agree Howard, the end is definatly worth it so stick with it.

I just got paid at the weekend. It does feel kind of weird though, I'm looking at my balance online and thinking it is all mine to keep :-)