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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 1:53 pm
by janderson
Hi All

Just a post to try to act as a stress release, we are in an IVA proposal and have a slight deferment until Monday for some of our creditors to consider further the proposal. My point is it is strssing us out, and with the weekedn ahead of us we will be round the bend by Monday, any tips or advice will be appreciated.



Thanks


John

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 2:02 pm
by plasticdaft
Long walks,or alcohol. Hard to not think about it,but if the proposal is the best you can put forward then fingers crossed it goes ahead.

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 2:13 pm
by kallis3
Trip to the cinema perhaps? Or visit friends?

Monday will soon be here and I also have everything crossed that it goes ok for you.

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 2:22 pm
by Skippy
Good luck John, I hope it's accepted on Monday and you can finally celebrate x

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 2:29 pm
by Michael Peoples
Try not to stress too much as you have put forward your best offer and the rest is down to negotiation. Hopefully it will be resolved on Monday and you can get on with your life but that does not make the weekend any less of a worry. When I am stressed I find playing card games a great way to relax [unless you play for money and lose].

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 2:32 pm
by flumpy dog
hey john
im wishing you all the best ok.
try what the others have suggested. ive been there and the waiting is truly horrible luckily i was working straight through until the day so that helped take my mind off it.
do anything you can-walking, dvds working etc.
this place is a great comfort. if you get too stressed jump on here and we will look after you until the day [:)]

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 3:13 pm
by janderson
Hi All

Thanks for the suppotive messages, and Michael we hope the negotiations work out well for all of us. I will work on my local newspaper column this weekend and try to absorb my self in packing it with loads of stuff from wherever I can find it. The internet will be on overdrive this weekend.


Thanks


John[:)]hopfully

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 3:16 pm
by kallis3
Good idea John!

Lets hope the creditors have a productive weekend as well - you deserve a break.

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 3:59 pm
by tori
Good luck for monday John, i hope it's good news and that everything works out for you both..take care[:)]xx..

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 4:14 pm
by MrsKnight
Hi John good luck too from me!
Keep busy & watch dvds, get a takeaway, eat loads of chocolate - or better still Ice Cream! The Weekend will soon be over.

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 4:50 pm
by Lisa2009
Keep busy, it'll soon fly by.
Best of luck from me also xxx

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 5:01 pm
by markss
try not worry I am sure by monday night you will be wondering why you got stressed out. who is you iva co?

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 5:15 pm
by debtmountain
Hi John...Good luck for Monday from me too,hope the weekend doesn't drag too much for you,..if you can, try to put it to the back of your mind and just concentrate on having yourself a lovely and relaxing weekend,doing something nice and Monday will be here before you know it with hopefully some really good news for you,you definately deserve some!!..we did this when we were waiting on our 14 day adjournment and it worked for us!!..will keep my fingers crossed for you...xx[:)]

Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 8:10 pm
by MelanieGiles
John

You are in the very safest of hands, and I know that Michael will personally make it his business to try and get as many "yes" votes as he and his team can to support the IVA. It may be a low dividend, but you are trying your best and deserve to get the right result.

Keeping everything crossed for you!

Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:09 am
by David Mond
Mel, how are you aware that "Michael" is doing this IVA? - I am just curious.

Don't worry Janderson as whoever is putting your case forward knows what he/she is doing. Let them do the worrying for you. My advice is to get out of the house and do something with friends and family to take your mind off the matter. Good luck from me too.