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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:09 am
by mr skint
Hi all, this seems to be the place to talk openly about your problems. I recently contacted a financial adviser about my debt problems. I was very impressed that someone can help and offer advise. I was advised to enrol in a IVA and the way it was explained is the way forward. I am in the process of completing my IVA pack at present. The thing that scares me is i was professionally informed to stop paying my creditors straight away. Is this normal as i have always made the minimum payments even if i couldn't afford it.[?]
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:14 am
by look_divine
you married to mrs skint?
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:16 am
by size5
Hello and welcome.
It is usual to be advised to stop paying creditors, as making unaffordable payments contributes to, rather than solves, the problem of debts you cannot repay.
Hope this helps and good luck, post as many questions as you like.
Regards.
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:18 am
by mr skint
look_divine wrote:
you married to mrs skint?
Had not realised that there was a mrs skint, but yeah my wife is skint too
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:19 am
by look_divine
lol yes there is a mrs skint on the forum also maybe thought you were her other half

Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:21 am
by mr skint
Thanks size5 for that advice, still concerning though [:(]
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:28 am
by size5
I understand. It is natural to be worried, but I am sure that you would agree that the alternative, staying as you are and possibly running up more debts, would have been far worse.
Regards.
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:33 am
by tori
hi mr.skint and welcome from me.it can be quite a scary feeling to just stop paying your creditors.i had never missed a payment until i started the iva process and felt like a common criminal when i didnt make any payments for the first time!! but on the plus side it gave me an opportunity to put some contingency money to one side whilst my iva proposal was being put together.you will get lots of help and support on here as we are,or have, all been in the same boat! good luck with your iva journey!![:)]
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 12:37 am
by MelanieGiles
Just make sure that if you have a Northern Rock Together loan that you do not stop paying the unsecured element of this whilst your IVA is in preparation. Northern Rock will set your mortgage payments partly against the unsecured element which will leave you with mortgage arrears by the time the IVA is in place.
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:33 am
by Adam Davies
Hi
Good info from Melanie
It always feels strange to stop making any payments to unsecured creditors once you are decided on an IVA,especially after months/years of juggling money about to always make the payments on time.
It is the right advice though
Regards
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:47 am
by Soulgrowth
Welcome to the Forum Mr Skint ... I think I am right in believing that Mrs Skint became a forum poster after her husband was once a regular poster on the Forum ... do correct me if I am wrong Mrs Skint.
Mr Skint, this is quite a normal thing to do, as the other posters have said. Do use this as an opportunity to build up a little 'contigency fund' which you may well need to fall back on during the time you are in your IVA ... a good, solid jam jar is often useful [:)]
All the very best ... and now that you have found us do keep posting on the Forum for you certainly are amongst friends here who will support you through your journey.
Debbie
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 8:18 am
by aguise
Hi and welcome from me too. I cant add anything to the other posters advice but it is quite usual to be advised to stop payments and as said it helps to build some back contingency.
Ang
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 8:45 am
by freelili
These names are going to get confusing. I think Mrs skints OH started posting as 'Skint'
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 9:37 am
by kallis3
Welcome from me as well.
We stopped paying ours as soon as we started the process. You will get letters and phone calls from the creditors, some of which are downright bullying.
Don't give in to them, just tell them you are going for an IVA and then put the phone down.
Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 11:00 am
by Lisa2009
Hubby started posting as "skint" as lily says.
Must admit, i thought i was going mad when i saw that name LOL