Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 5:51 pm
Hi, I was directed here by someone of another forum..Thanks A.
My confusion and hence dilemma is this.
I went about refurbishing my house about 8 years ago. I had an architect draw up plans and commisioned a builder from the many quotes I received.
I moved out and he set about demolishment in a big way. Within 3 weeks of start date, he decided that this world wasn't for him any longer and went to the big construction site in the sky.
I struggled with employing another builder who would take on his work and when I finally managed, he ripped me off and left the house no further on. I spent my life's savings to keep the project afloat and mortgaged myself to the hilt.
I used credit cards and a loan to finish the house and moved in with a view to selling. It wasn't meant to be a quick turnaround, but we had already spent to the max in order to have something to live in.
I hope you are still with me [:I]
At the same time as our house went up for sale, the market collapsed. Upshot is I am still here 3 years later, house not sold and savings exhausted.
I have just defaulted on my credit cards and unsecured loans for the first time this month. I tried a self administered DMP, but some creditors refused to deal with me.
I finally contacted CCCS who advised an IVA, which I am currently setting up with an IP.
I have £40k of unsecured debt.
I have a mortgage of £174k with a theoretical equity of £60k
My surplus has been worked out at £206/month based on my incomings v outgoings.
Twist:
My wife has a DMP though Payplan. Her debts are £50k all unnsecured, but her name is on the mortgage. She pays nothing towards the household and to be honest I don't know from one minute to the next if she is going to remain here.
Should I continue with my IVA. My IP suggests that my creditors will want her to contribute, but if she walks then I would be liable for the shortfall and the IVA would fail as a result.
She has no permenant means of income, so even if she stayed, I cannot guarantee the increased payments could be maintained.
Should I just include both of our debts and push for BR. That way, I could be shot of her and her debts which would dog me whilst she remains on the mortgage deeds.
My confusion and hence dilemma is this.
I went about refurbishing my house about 8 years ago. I had an architect draw up plans and commisioned a builder from the many quotes I received.
I moved out and he set about demolishment in a big way. Within 3 weeks of start date, he decided that this world wasn't for him any longer and went to the big construction site in the sky.
I struggled with employing another builder who would take on his work and when I finally managed, he ripped me off and left the house no further on. I spent my life's savings to keep the project afloat and mortgaged myself to the hilt.
I used credit cards and a loan to finish the house and moved in with a view to selling. It wasn't meant to be a quick turnaround, but we had already spent to the max in order to have something to live in.
I hope you are still with me [:I]
At the same time as our house went up for sale, the market collapsed. Upshot is I am still here 3 years later, house not sold and savings exhausted.
I have just defaulted on my credit cards and unsecured loans for the first time this month. I tried a self administered DMP, but some creditors refused to deal with me.
I finally contacted CCCS who advised an IVA, which I am currently setting up with an IP.
I have £40k of unsecured debt.
I have a mortgage of £174k with a theoretical equity of £60k
My surplus has been worked out at £206/month based on my incomings v outgoings.
Twist:
My wife has a DMP though Payplan. Her debts are £50k all unnsecured, but her name is on the mortgage. She pays nothing towards the household and to be honest I don't know from one minute to the next if she is going to remain here.
Should I continue with my IVA. My IP suggests that my creditors will want her to contribute, but if she walks then I would be liable for the shortfall and the IVA would fail as a result.
She has no permenant means of income, so even if she stayed, I cannot guarantee the increased payments could be maintained.
Should I just include both of our debts and push for BR. That way, I could be shot of her and her debts which would dog me whilst she remains on the mortgage deeds.