Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 2:34 pm
This is just a quick post for anyone making or about to make their first posts with a query regarding their debts. Please read this and do not think I am pressuring you to do anything you do not want to do, you will know when the time is right and believe me, you will never look back.
Lately, I seem to see a lot of people getting scared off when an expert or a member asks for a little bit more information with regards to the amount of debt, who you owe, information about your property status, ie: mortgage, renting etc.
We have all been, and some still are, in your position, we understand your need for anonymity. Every case is different depending on the factors above. No one is being nosey, we all want to help as much as we possibly can, within, our sometimes limited, field of expertise.
Sometimes we can only provide you with reassurance and an outlet for your frustration, although this is important, the real experts who post on here sometimes need more in depth facts and figures to give you the best possible advice to cater for your individual requirements.
No one will ever try to drum up business from you over this forum, they have links under their posts for if you wish to contact them, to discuss more privately, your current problems. They all give up a lot of time and free advice which is greatly appreciated by all who have asked for it. The admin on this site, are second to none, if any undesirables start to post, they are quickly removed. You will be surprised how many people have had the same worries/problems as yourself, this is where this community is priceless, they will share the benefit of their experiences to make the road less bumpy for those of us following in their tracks.
To sum up, please do not be scared off by a few questions that could help you get your life back on track both financially and personally. If you have tried to post before and have been too scared to answer a question, please don't give up, you commit yourself to nothing on here, and at the end of the day, no one knows who you are anyway, life's too short - give it a go - you wont regret it [:)]
Lately, I seem to see a lot of people getting scared off when an expert or a member asks for a little bit more information with regards to the amount of debt, who you owe, information about your property status, ie: mortgage, renting etc.
We have all been, and some still are, in your position, we understand your need for anonymity. Every case is different depending on the factors above. No one is being nosey, we all want to help as much as we possibly can, within, our sometimes limited, field of expertise.
Sometimes we can only provide you with reassurance and an outlet for your frustration, although this is important, the real experts who post on here sometimes need more in depth facts and figures to give you the best possible advice to cater for your individual requirements.
No one will ever try to drum up business from you over this forum, they have links under their posts for if you wish to contact them, to discuss more privately, your current problems. They all give up a lot of time and free advice which is greatly appreciated by all who have asked for it. The admin on this site, are second to none, if any undesirables start to post, they are quickly removed. You will be surprised how many people have had the same worries/problems as yourself, this is where this community is priceless, they will share the benefit of their experiences to make the road less bumpy for those of us following in their tracks.
To sum up, please do not be scared off by a few questions that could help you get your life back on track both financially and personally. If you have tried to post before and have been too scared to answer a question, please don't give up, you commit yourself to nothing on here, and at the end of the day, no one knows who you are anyway, life's too short - give it a go - you wont regret it [:)]
