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My creditors meeting is this friday, and last night I collapsed into the kind of tears that would not stop- no matter what! It has all become too much, and being self employed where I have to face the day no matter if 'I'm bleeding from the eyes' does not help. The pressure at the moment is enormous and keeping mind body and soul together is getting harder by the day.
I guess Friday will be crunch day. Sorry for the self pity....

Hi littleted,
We know how you are feeling but please try and stay strong and dont forget to let us all know how you get on with the meeting on Friday.
Fingers crossed for you.

Hi Littleted I'm gonna keep my fingers crossed for Friday for you. I don't think it's self pity at all, everyone needs to vent sometimes. I'm sending you a virtual hug.
Take care Sue

Thanks for the kind words.
Keeping a happy face for my customers is a challenge, although I think the puffy eyes might give something away! The urge to run away is very strong, hopefully tomorrow I will feel more like fight instead of flight x

Hi,

No need to apologise for "self pity" - I think everyone on this forum gets a dark day at some point or other. Draw on the strength & community of this forum and good luck for Friday!

Good luck for Friday littleted, I understand how you feel but hopefully you'll be celebrating at the weekend. X

Hiya littleted, good luck for friday, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you,
try not to worry too much,
xx

Good Luck littleted, my meeting in on Monday and I am getting more nervous by the day! Have managed to stop myself from crying, but I am getting short tempered!

Fingers crossed for you

Good luck> I really worried when my meeting came up but it was all fine. Try not to worry, think of it as the start of a new chapter in your life )

good luck for friday littleted. Try not to worry, I'm sure things will go well, and you will be able to celebrate over the weekend x

Hi littleted
The meeting date always feels a bit like crunch time, and a mixture of mixed emotions. You have done everything you can, just keep busy and we are all here if you need a chat, so many have felt like you do.

I will be rooting for you on friday, fingers crossed positive vibes. Stay occupied and it isnt too long to wait now.

well done

Ang x

Just wanted to say good luck for Friday Littleted and good luck to Kallis3 for Monday xx

Thanks everyone, whoa, feeling better already!!
What an experience this is to go through, will dry my eyes and put on my balls of steel x

Good luck Littleted and Kallis x

I think everyone gets to this stage before the meeting. I know i did thats for sure. I even cried after the IP rang to say I got all yes's out of joy cos I could then see light at the end of the tunnel.

Good luck for friday. Hope it works out for you.