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Post by kallis3 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 7:51 am
Glad everything is going ok Lyns. I wouldn't worry about the weight as you've had to be inactive due to the op. It will come off.

Glad little L is doing ok (much prefer the initial to the other name!!!)
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Post by Skippy » Wed Feb 22, 2012 10:07 am
I agree with Jan Lyns, don't worry about the weight as it will come off as you get more active.

I'm glad Leah (sorry, I can't call her the other name as Leah is such a pretty name!) is doing well.

Take care x
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Post by kazzafunk » Wed Feb 22, 2012 12:16 pm
Don't worry about the weight Lyns - it will be salad time soon and it's always easier when winter is over. I did have to look at the post twice though as I thought it said you had to lose 21 stone!!

Little Leah will love her strolls in her buggy in the spring and that will help. Don't forget not only have you had a baby, you've had a major operation as well so give yourself some time.

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Post by MrsKnight » Wed Feb 22, 2012 1:10 pm
Thanks jan, tracey n karen,I hope it does fall off! Sorry I just didn't see it coming, it only hit me when I went to pull on a pair of jeans & couldnt them get past my thighs! It's not helping that I've got nothing to wear n can't afford to buy a new wardrobe. I'm really struggling to stop it from making me depressed & reaching for my old comfort n nasty cigs! Can't afford them either! Roll on spring I need to get out with the pram x

I've got my review paper work through aswell & obviously with Leah everything's changed & gone up, formula milk & nappies, even down to heating the home. Think it's going to be ok though as the increase in child benefit & credit has covered it & can still keep up with the Iva payments, if GT ok the increases in expenditure, which I'm sure they will.

Sorry - feeling abit low today x
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Post by Shining » Wed Feb 22, 2012 1:31 pm
I prefer to call her Leah, a very special name to me. It's early days to be worrying about your weight yet Lyns, you enjoy Leah and those beautiful boys x
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Post by kallis3 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 1:44 pm
The weight loss can wait Lyns!! Concentrate on Leah, the boys and Shaun.

Don't want to offend you Lyns but I do still have some 'larger' clothes that I can send to you if you want? Send me an email or FB message with your size and I'll see whay I can do.
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Post by kallis3 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 2:10 pm
The weight loss can wait Lyns!! Concentrate on Leah, the boys and Shaun.

Don't want to offend you Lyns but I do still have some 'larger' clothes that I can send to you if you want? Send me an email or FB message with your size and I'll see whay I can do.
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Post by MrsKnight » Wed Feb 22, 2012 4:09 pm
Thank you, I know I'm sorry! I'm just having a off day - which I've not had for a long time. I was watching loose women yesterday & they were on about pressure on women after having a baby & I think I'm getting abit of that at the moment. Getting caught up in worrying about what people think & expect & comparing myself to others.

Maybe my hormones crashing again!

No offense taken at all Jan, im very grateful for the offer, thank you, will email you when Leah let's me! Think she must be growing because ive not stopped feeding her today! X
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Post by kallis3 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 4:19 pm
Please do - I'll sort them out as we're having a clear out next week but won't get rid until you let me know.
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Post by MrsKnight » Wed Feb 22, 2012 4:35 pm
Will do it after I've sorted boys tea Jan - thank you xxxx
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Post by Julie » Sat Feb 25, 2012 6:30 pm
How are you feeling Lyns?

Please don't feel pressured to lose weight, you went through so much to have Bingo, just enjoy her. When you are running around after her, the weight will fall off.

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Post by Foggy » Sat Feb 25, 2012 6:55 pm
Hi Lyns --- looking after a family and a newborn is pressure enough. Just enjoy the moment (when not too exhausted) and sod the world :-)
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Post by kallis3 » Sat Feb 25, 2012 6:55 pm
Lyns - I've messaged you about my clearout.

You need to look after Leah and the boys at the moment - weight loss will come later.
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Post by luluj » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:16 pm
Look after you and baby and your beautiful boys......loosing the weight can wait...it will happen when it is meant to happen......
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Post by MrsKnight » Mon Feb 27, 2012 2:14 pm
Hi - thank u all, nearly had me in tears again!

Leah is 8 weeks old today & I have come to the conclusion to just say sod it, this is my last little one & they grow so fast, I dont want to miss it. I've put a picture on FB of Leah today & if you look back at previous pictures in the same chair, she is huge now :( well not really & it's nice to see chubby cheeks! Leah is just starting to have periods of been awake & kicking & looking, there's nothing wrong with her eyes or ears! She loves company, her shouts when she wants attention are really cute, but has a set of lungs when she wants feeding!
I know & feel very lucky to have this opportunity again & I want to enjoy every minute.

Im just getting some strength back, my pace to school has picked up & is not such a struggle, and I can drive again,
so I can go shopping on my own now! Ive had abit of nastiness off a nosy neighbor, whos daughter was pregnant at the same time & it just got me down, I don't normally let belittling get me to me but it did.

Thank you all n thank you Jan x
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