any ideas for feeling better

[kallis3]

You're not bothering me at all! You need to speak to someone there and you know how nice the team are - they will get it sorted for you a lot quicker than you waiting for an email.

They will be able to sort something out but you do need to speak to someone.

[Shining]

FD it's hard so hard when you're feeling low and I do know that, it's hard to do anything and get yourself motivated. I'm available for you off forum to chat to if you want, either via the telephone, email or just a text, the offer is there and I won't have any answers but I'm a good listener. As Jan says the Dr may be able to help and get you back on track but remember my offer stands. xx

[flumpy dog]

they already know-it was to do with julys payment. my sister neede help and i stupidly didnt contact them -i know idiot but all the girl emailed was to know why and how i was gonna pay it back but because she didnt reply i got panicked. thank god for kal xx

[flumpy dog]

thanx lesley xx

[Foggy]

FD --- Hi --- When things happen ( and they always do ) try not to let them overwhelm you ( easier said than done ) ... but the saying " every journey starts with a single step" is a good one. Take the problems in small, bite sized, chunks and nibble away. A list of chores can look intimidating, but, one at a time, they aren't so bad .... I speak from experience.

[flumpy dog]

thanx sweetheart. im sorry for bothering everyone but i feel like a faliure. ive made 30 payments and this is the first time ive ballsed up.cant believe i was too scared to contact them but i was. i will get it sorted but just cant believe its happened xx thanks all youre so lovely xx

[kallis3]

It's a slip up - anyone can make them. It's one payment and you can get it sorted, just pick up the phone.

[Shining]

One you're not bothering us and two you're not a failure, you missed one payment, it can be caught up. There but for the grace of god go I as none of us can predict our future and what might happen to our loved ones. You relax now x

[Skippy]

FD, you're not a failure. You've got an excellent understanding IP so you really do need to pick up the phone as that's the only way it's going to get sorted x

[Foggy]

Well, FD ... 30 payments without a balls up is an achievment in itself

To err is human and all that ( I have made some doozies in my time ... but we won';t go into that !!! )

[flumpy dog]

you know something more than anything i needed reassurance and you two beautiful people have given it.

i just freaked out i dont know why. i was so scared as it took enough to get it started-kal remembers xx

i know i seem a fool but i am really committed to this and i was terrified -my sisters still really ill and i didnt know what else to do. she neede help but in hindsight i should have called. i didnt call cos i would have been on the phone in tears love u guys xxx

[flumpy dog]

thanx skip and foggy xxx- my heart is in my mouth got so worked up xx

[kallis3]

I do remember FD - which is why I have given you a virtual kick up the bum!!

It doesn't matter if you are in tears - they will understand!

[flumpy dog]

i know babe im really sorry

this sounds awful but ive only spoken to mel virtually since starting the iva.

some girl called louise emailed me and i emailed her back but got auto reply cos she was on holiday but ive emailed since and heard nothing.

ive got a small bit of ot coming up. just gotta get this back to black asap [:(]

[Foggy]

FD -- this is written with a smile :0) ...... this is an order !!!! ... stop apologising !! You have nothing to apologise for ..... and don't say "I'm sorry for being sorry" !!!!!! Get it ? Got it ? good !!!